- Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18)
- Speak without accusing. (James 1:19)
- Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26)
- Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9)
- Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1)
- Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15)
- Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:14)
- Trust without wavering. (Corinthians 13:7)
- Forgive without punishing. (Colossians 3:13)
- Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12)
can’t stop crying. was a fool and read through old messages. i’m not crying cause they were sweet, i’m not crying because i miss him. i’m crying because of the way i spoke to him. my expectations for him were always so high that when he didn’t live up to all of them i flipped. said i didn’t deserve the way he was treating me, that i was done, that he should have been better. i just wanna call him and apologize. i cannot believe myself. i was right, i didn’t deserve the way he treated me, i deserved so much worse. he tried so hard and i am so awful. i’d give anything to be able to hold him and tell him how sorry i was. to cry in his arms and try and make him understand.. he will NEVER understand, he will never comprehend how much i regret, how sorry truly sorry i am for the way i treated him. PLEASE DO NOT KEEP YOUR EXPECTATIONS AT AN UNREACHABLE LEVEL. I’M NOT SAYING DON’T HAVE STANDARDS. I’M SAYING LET YOUR BOYFRIEND MAKE MISTAKES, JUST FREAKING LOVE HIM. DON’T BE SO SELFISH LIKE I WAS. HE. IS. HUMAN. HE WILL MESS UP, YOUR JOB IS TO LOVE HIM ANYWAY.
God, PLEASE give me another chance… please.
If you have a boy that treats you like he should.. That loves you more than anything. That you know would do anything for you. DON’T TAKE THAT FOR GRANTED. girls are so freaking stupid. and everything that i’m saying, goes for guys too. I’m just directing it to all my girls. What percentage effort should a relationship be? 50%-50% right? NO. 90%-10%. Because honestly??? Who’s happiness means more to you? you have no idea how big of a struggle this was for me, when i actually had the worlds most perfect boy. & now he’s gone. and more than ANYTHING, I would kill for the chance to prove to him just how much I love him, and how much HIS HAPPINESS MEANS TO ME. When you’re in a fight, does it really mean THAT much to you, that you win? How bout you let him win sometimes when it’s not a big deal. Now over all, my personal christian opinion is put God before everything and anything. but when it boils down to you & this boy, friend, or family member. honestly.. if you really care about them, like truly.. then you’ll be happier when they’re happy. so stop thinking so much about yourself. stop being so freaking selfish, and live everyday like you’re about to lose the best thing that’s ever happened to you.
Let them know how happy you are. Let them know everything about your love for them. How happy they make you, how incredible you want to treat them. How you want them to be the happiest person in the world. Let them know every great feeling you have. often. let them know your love for them. Because if you truly truly love them. More than anything. That kind of crazy love where you cannot even understand where all the love is coming from! kinda love them. than there is no way they’ll ever understand it. But do you very best to try and help them with that.
don’t ever not talk to him.
always talk to him, always.
I know you may think you don’t, or it doesn’t matter cause you’ll always have them. But then what happens when one day you wake up and don’t have them anymore. Then you see them at a party and would do ANYTHING to graze their arm. Grab their neck. Feel your face lightly pressed against theirs. I don’t care how long you’ve been together. How safe you feel, you don’t want that ability to be taken away.
[this is more geared towards relationships]
This is a couples blog. I used to keep you updated in my relationship and reblog adorable pictures of couples. Well now that I’ve been dumped, I choose not to look at couple pictures and can update you on anything. I want to teach you if that’s okay. I wanna help you learn what I wish I had known when I had the perfect boy. I don’t want you to make the same mistakes I did. Now most anything I say can be used in any relationship. Friends, Family, Romantic. (don’t know why I capitalized all of those) But I’d really love it if you’d take a look at what I’ve got to say. I’m also here to answer any questions, give advice, or just be a friend. I love you all, have a great night.
